Sex Ed The Musical

EPISODE 33: EXPERT BLOWJOB TIPS FROM A GAY MAN

Michele Bachmann once famously said, “No one knows his way around a penis like a gay man.” Or maybe she was talking about her husband? Either way, it’s totally TRUE! That’s why on this episode, I went to THE SOURCE! My very dear friend and gay husband, Mr. LaRue, to find out exactly what blowjob techniques will blow a guy’s mind. I hate to call out the Blowjob Education Industrial Complex, whose annual operating budget must 7,504,503% larger than the Cunnilingus Community College budget, but the hard fact is that men are in charge of fucking everything. Which is why womenpeople are inundated with scrillions of classes, magazine articles, listicles, podcasts, instagram posts, Facebook fights, and videos all dedicated to making us Blowjob Beyonces. Cunnilingus tips? Heeeey, look over there! It’s a boner! Here is my irrefutable anecdotal evidence: I invited my pal, sex educator Nina Hartley to teach a blowjob class to some of my vanilla suburban friends in my house, and it was standing room only! And I have a big house! On the flip side, I had a cunnilingus class in my house and 6 people showed up. That included me and one friend who just so happened to be there to return a Pyrex baking dish they’d borrowed. So yeah, we’re all getting sucked in to the pressure to become blowjob goddesses. That’s why I decided to go right to the source and got some insane BJ tips from my boo, Mr. LaRue, who knows his way around a boner. You are about to learn things that I’ve never ever heard. And that, my friends, is saying something.

EPISODE 32: WHAT GOES DOWN IN A SEX CLUB?

In every city across America, there are Sex Clubs. Some are private and require memberships. Some require you to send nude photos to make sure you conform to a certain aesthetic in order to be admitted. Some are super elite and cost thousands of dollars to attend for just one night. Some are exclusively gay. Some are exclusively kink centric. Regardless of their individual rules, crowds and aesthetics, Sex Clubs are places where adults can meet each other and have sex right on the premises. You might think that by entering a Sex Club, you’re immediately surrendering all of your clothes, rights and consent just by virtue of being there. That cannot be further from the truth. In fact, in many sex clubs rules are posted everywhere and entrants must agree to all of the rules before then can join the crowd. Your boundaries and personal space are more respected in a Sex Club than in your typical bar…or grocery store…or subway car…or the myriad other places you can be groped without your consent. So what really happens inside of a sex club and why would you ever want to go to one? On this episode I speak with Brad and Tammy McCray, the owners of a unique Sex Club in Portland called Sanctuary. When it comes to Sex Clubs, Sanctuary is an outlier. They don’t require a membership before you can enter (which is common practice for many other sex clubs). They don’t charge male and female guests different entry fees (also common among other Sex Clubs). They are LGBTQ+ and hetero mixed (very rare among Sex Clubs). And they are body positive, welcoming of all gender identities, kinks, and relationship configurations. And here’s the crazy part — it totally works! If you’ve always been a little curious, now’s your chance to find out what really happens inside of a Sex Club, what you can expect, what you are always within your rights to demand and how you’re probably safer in a room full of perverts than your local grocery store. How To Find A Sex Club Near You — Of course you can check Yelp or search “Sex Clubs Near Me” but you’re also going to get a lot of strip clubs, which is not the same thing as a Sex Club. Check out swinging lifestyle sites such as Kasidie.com, an adult community for sexually adventurous people. It’s not the largest swinger community but it’s very easy to navigate and there are easy to find links to sex parties and sex clubs near you. There are also couples dating apps out there but a lot of them require you to link them to your Instagram or Facebook profiles. This can be privacy problematic so you may need to set up a new profile that’s not linked to 800 of your closest friends. Although, at least 40 of them should be able to recommend some fun sex clubs. If not, you might want to get some new friends.   Photo by Jon Tyson on Unsplash

EPISODE 31: YOU'RE HERE CAUSE I LIED

“Always listen to your heart, because even though it’s on your left side, it’s always right.” — Nicholas Sparks On this episode, I reveal the surprising true story behind the creation of Sex Ed The Musical. I don’t want to give too much away right here. Let’s just say it required a fuckton of failure, a lie to some big-time studio executives and staring at someone a lot smarter than me. Not necessarily in that order. QUESTIONS THAT WILL BE ANSWERED IN THE NEXT 9 MINUTES What really sparked the idea for this podcast? Why is your past not at all relevant to your future? Exactly how many Shamans do I know? And in case an episode of just me talking about me isn’t enough me, below is a link to me talking about me with someone else who’s not me. Here I am on the MILF Podcast also explaining the story behind this podcast, except much longer and to someone a lot taller than me. Did you ever tell a lie about yourself that actually turned out to be true? Share your story in the comments. I’d love to hear from you.

EPISODE 30: SEX ED LIES

Sex Education has a controversial history in this country. Deliberate misinformation, scare tactics, religious corruption, institutionalized misogyny, and archaic educational materials are all part of the story. Sex education isn’t required in every state and even if it is taught in your state, it’s not always required to be factually and technically accurate. State and Local Legislators Decide What Can Be Taught in Sex Education Even though it’s been proven conclusively that Abstinence Only Education DOES NOT WORK, there’s a very clear and direct correlation between unintended teen pregnancies and the states with conservative politics that will only teach abstinence. No abstinence-only-until-marriage program has been shown to have any impact on young people’s behavior. If you’ve had any institutionalized sex education in this country, there’s a good chance you were taught something wildly inaccurate. SO I’M CELEBRATING THOSE LIES! On this episode, I share some of the best worst lies I’ve heard. I also play clips from this masterpiece: Molly Grows Up. But Wait, There’s More! Planned Parenthood is the nation’s largest provider of sex education, and they are under attack. Therefore, for every download this episode gets in its first week of release, I will donate $1 to Planned Parenthood, up to $2000. Meaning, if 2000 people download the episode, I’ll donate $2000. It’s that simple. If you want to match my donation, comment below. I’ll also be posting daily stats on Instagram @SexEdMusicalPodcast   Correction: I mistakenly stated in this episode that 39 states require that abstinence is included in sex education. The actual number is 37 states that require abstinence is included in sex education. I regret the mistake but not as much as I regret abstinence only sex education.

EPISODE 29: HOW TO LIGHT YOUR OWN FIRE WITH AMY JO GODDARD

Amy Jo Goddard is a Sexual Empowerment Educator, Coach, Bestselling Author and All Around Epic Badass in the world of feminism, human sexuality and education. In this interview, Amy Jo covers many amazing subjects including: Why Is A Sexually Empowered Woman So Threatening? Why Owning Your Sexual Power Is The Key To Owning Your Overall Power As A Woman How Much Deprogramming Women Need When It Comes To Sexuality The Common Misunderstandings About Female Sexuality How To Reclaim The Pleasure You Deserve After Leaving A Sexually Unfulfilling Relationship A highly sought after expert for over two decades, in addition to her writing and work leading a variety of classes, workshops and programs, Amy Jo is also the host of the Fire Woman Retreat - a three-day, life-changing event that empowers women to own their sexuality, reclaim it, heal it and then celebrate it. Amy Jo has given me a special discount code for listeners of this show: wendy100 will save $100 when you register online for her upcoming Fire Woman Retreat which is taking place in Southern California on September 27-29, 2019. When you experience this amazing event, you’ll have a completely new framework for your sexuality that will help you create what you really desire. To find out more about Amy Jo Goddard, and learn how you can take her amazing classes and workshops, or for personal coaching contact her here. Amy Jo Goddard is the author of two books: Woman on Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power, and Sexual Intelligence And she’s co-author of the bestseller, Lesbian Sex Secrets For Men   THIS EPISODE OF SEX ED THE MUSICAL IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: VULVARAMA The Finest Pleasure Products Curated By Women, For Women www.vulvarama.com Doing our part, for your ladyparts.    

EPISODE 28: SCREW CONFESSIONS

What do plastic sheets, the New York City Fire Department, an overzealous puppy, an errant sesame seed and a head injury have in common? They all play hilarious roles in the true confessions you’re about to hear. That’s right folks, it’s time for an entire episode of sex fails, our First Annual Screw Confessions Extravaganza!!! Get ready for a bunch of absolutely true and hilarious sex fails, told by listeners and guests of the show. Every one of these stories is so wrong and yet so very right. So, put on your laughing pants, sit back and press play. I promise you’ll feel a lot better about yourself when it’s over.

EPISODE 27: HOW TO FIND SOMEONE FOR YOUR FIRST THREESOME -- A UNICORN GETS REAL

Having a threesome is a top sexual fantasy for couples. But, how do you find that elusive, hot, drama-free, bisexual third who’d be willing to join you and your partner for some NSA fun in bed? Do these people even exist? Or are they mythical creatures? Like Unicorns? You’ll be glad to know that people who enjoy having sex with couples actually DO exist. They’re called Unicorns because of their rarity and also because they’re the stuff that dreams are made of. On this episode, I interview a very experienced, savvy, bisexual Unicorn who shares everything you need to know about finding that special someone for your first threesome. You’ll learn how to impress them and common mistakes to avoid when you’re putting together your first threesome. Unicorns may be mythical creatures but this one is about to get very real.   The following links mentioned during this episode are not affiliated with Sex Ed The Musical   Sites Mentioned By My Guest http://unicorn-adventures.com/ https://feeld.co/ https://www.kik.com/   Popular Dating Sites Frequented By Couples And Unicorns https://www.kasidie.com/ https://www.sdc.com/ https://www.lifestylelounge.com/ https://www.okcupid.com/ https://tinder.com/     THIS EPISODE OF SEX ED THE MUSICAL IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: VULVARAMA The Finest Pleasure Products Curated By Women, For Women www.vulvarama.com Doing our part for your ladyparts.       Photo credit: Pixabay.com

EPISODE 26: UNDER COVERS -- "BARB"

Barb. (That’s not her real name). Just like the previous three Under Covers conversations, there’s a lot I could share with you about Barb in advance, but I really want you to listen to this conversation and come to your own conclusions. Because anything I choose to highlight about Barb’s answers, immediately becomes charged. Is that now a judgment? Is that now a commentary? This conversation is an emotional thrill ride and I really don’t want to tell you what you’re about to experience in advance. This is all about hearing other women’s stories and realizing that there may be aspects of another woman’s life that completely resonates with your own. Suddenly, you’re not alone anymore. Suddenly things make a little more sense. Maybe by hearing these stories, you can move forward with the knowledge that we’re all in this together and the best way to start healing is to start sharing our differences with each other. With no judgment. All you need to know in advance is that Barb is 60, divorced and heterosexual. That’s where all similarities end…or begin.   THIS EPISODE IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:   VULVARAMA The Finest In Pleasure Products Curated By Women, For Women www.vulvarama.com

EPISODE 25: UNDER COVERS -- "MOLLY"

 Molly. (It’s not her real name). There’s a lot I can share with you about Molly in advance but I really want you to listen to this conversation and come to your own conclusions. What I’m discovering by asking different women the same questions about their sex lives, is that even though I’m talking to complete strangers, women of all different ages, sexual orientations and backgrounds, we all share so many things in common. When it comes to sex, each of us carries our own trauma and shame. Each of us has had to navigate a completely unfair and unbalanced world of non-consent. Each of us had some semblance of sex education that was either rooted in fundamental religious doctrine or falsehoods designed to keep us obedient, chaste and controlled. Each of us has had to figure out how to navigate the world of sex and advocating for the pleasure we all deserve. Even if your answers completely differ from the women I’m interviewing, we all share quite a bit. And it’s in the building of that understanding where we find community and sympathy so the healing can begin. In this third Under Covers conversation, I speak with a woman I’ve named Molly. Again, that’s not her real name. All you need to know in advance is that Molly is 42, twice married and identifies as heterosexual...ish. That’s where all similarities end…or begin.

EPISODE 24: UNDER COVERS -- "PATTI"

Wow. Based on the huge response, something really resonated with with my first Under Covers episode. I wanted to have a series of conversations featuring women of all ages, backgrounds and sexual orientations answering the same questions about their sex lives because I believed their answers would normalize what so many of us may be feeling and maybe also unite us as well. Even though we may be different, we share so much shame, misinformation, judgment and trauma when it comes to sex. My goal is for us to find healing and community by sharing our stories with each other. So, I’m going to keep this brief. In this second Under Covers conversation, I speak with a woman I’ve named Patti. That’s not her real name. All you need to know in advance is that Patti is 56, married and identifies as bisexual. That’s where all similarities end…or begin.   The two books mentioned about opening up a marriage and establishing new rules for ethical non-monogamy are: Opening Up: A Guide To Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships and The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love   In addition, there are two specific products mentioned in this episode. One of them is a cannabis lube created by a company called Foria. If you are in a legal cannabis state and interested in purchasing the product, you can find out more at https://foriapleasure.com/products/foria-pleasure Foria does not sponsor this show and I receive no compensation from them despite the fact that I clearly love and recommend their product. But you can find out more about Foria THC lube on their website. Hopefully it will bring you pleasure. The other product mentioned is a sex wedge. I personally love the company Liberator, which manufactures all of their products in Atlanta. They also don’t sponsor my show (YET) but below is an Amazon affiliate link for a Liberator product that I personally own, use and love. If you purchase an item from an Amazon link, I’m eligible for something like 9 cents. So please buy 85,000 Liberator Wedge Ramp Combos, cause this podcast is expensive to produce. Thank you.